It is safest to take the unpopular side in the first instance. Transit from the unpopular is easy... but from the popular to the unpopular is so steep and rugged that it is impossible to maintain it.
First Impossible Instance Maintain Popular
Neither man nor woman can be worth anything until they have discovered that they are fools.
Discovered Fools Man Neither Nor
What I want is men who will support me when I am in the wrong.
I I Am Me Men Support